Belong Vs. Unbelong
What is it with the world these days??? everybody either wants to be part of something bigger, something greater than they are. Some people join organisations , some people make gangs, some people just join things like laughter clubs, salsa classes etc.. I dont blame them , it all comes down to the loneliness that has become part of our lives i think. As we find ourselves more and mroe secure in the materialistic way we somehow find something is still missing.. Some embrace spirituality, some their work , some even go ahead and get married because to them one of these seems the safest thing to do.. The problem with me is none of them actually seem to be the solution.. Spirituality or religion ( two different things mind you) is enticing but has a lot of faults, it seems more an inhibitor than anything else.. Work is just plain trying to avoid the problem.. Marriage is even worse, if relationships were so easy, then we have enough relatives anyways.. Friends are the best way out.. Find a couple you can actually spend time with and then hope to god, to faith , to whatever you believe in that they stick to you…
The unbelong category is even worse , they want to stand out in a crowd, they wannabe different , they dont want to follow the common decison just because everybody else is doing it.. Their twisted logic denies them the ability to see that just by not doing something that others do, they belong to the unbelonging group..
Who am i bull shitting , we all wanna belong somewhere or the other.. Yes, we might say we have no place to call home, or rather no place that feels like home.. Well, patience my dear readers patience is the only option.. I have a huge family that i dont relate to, my friend on the other hand thinks having a big family is such a great thing(the grass is always on the other side sydrome i call it) Well, i wanna belong to, but i just havent found my place in the sun just yet.. When i do , i’ll be sure to keep you posted, till then i wish u all good luck in finding ur place, ur destiny, ur fate or whatever you wish to call it..