The thing about life is that most of the constraints that we set are created by us. There are a hundred things i can think of where i have been my own biggest setback.. Actually its not just me , most of the people around me knowingly or unknowingly are their own biggest obstacles.. The [...]
Invisible People…
Its amazing how schizophrenic people can be ( me included..). We see things only as we wish to see it, and we dont actually care even if someone else is willing to give us a better perception (because for us it is someone elses reality).
We happily ignore our faults, or try and downplay them when [...]
Tough Decisions..
This is one thing Indians are adept at handing over to someone else.. We just cant take a decision as long as it can be handed over to someone else.. Its a professional curse on one and all of us.. I agree there are exceptions but then, in 11 billion they are just a rounding error..
The [...]
On Secrets..
Recently i was asked how manyn people would i share my deepest darkest secrets with, and i could come up with only three names.. I dont know if thats too much or too little.. but the point of this post is not the numbers but about trust, or rather what makes someone eligible to know [...]
Scribblings-11
My scribblings are back. Once again random ramblings seem the only way to vent out so many thoughts that are buggering to get out..
There are people around who go through life in a sad , i-can- never-be-happy-coz-i-have-a-lot-of-problems-noone-can-solve and then there are people who have a never say die attitude and grin and bear through the worst phases [...]
On Commitment..
This is one issue and post i have been skirting for quite a while.. Frankly the word scares me.. It implies so many things at once that a person has to think twice before using it.. It is a lil more than a promise , a lot more than a man’s word (or a woman’s) [...]
Half Done….
Some things start BIG ( i mean real BBBBIIIGGG) and then fizz out in time to be another has been, or an almost was.. Latest examples : Rang De Basanti and Munnabhai.. The former had people lighting candles and doing all night vigils and the latter brought out a movement called Gandihgiri.. A lot of [...]
Constants , Change and Variables..
Changes, constants and variables… Sounds like math but this is life for me.. At work, at my room and everywhere in general constant mind numbers are needed for me to continue in a state of efficiency.. At work it is usually a mirage of numbers , metrics and call info.. At the room, loud music, [...]
Those were the days…
We have all used the abovesaid words a lot of times in our lives. remember how i college we used to think so about school, in PG about graduation and now in our jobs about PG. Yes it isnt the classes we miss, but the times we had. The present always falls short of our [...]
Three Eternal Questions ???
Is God willing to help people but not able to ?
Then he is impotent..
Is God able to help people but not willing to??
Then he is malevolent…
Is he both able and willing then why does evil still exist ???
To all my mates who think i have no reason to not believe…
